ON THE eBENCH : Watch this Space. I am going for one month of writing in the 3rd person ( more or less). Describing a photograph or topic. That should be interesting. Post of 250 words. Leaving ME out of it.


The LUFFLEY CAFÉ is in Murwillumbah. Its small with some footpath eating. Friday Nights, back in 2008, Kel MacIntosh and his Canaries played a strange form of Jazz to a street audience. Kel is the old fella in the middle. The smile of a cherub, has Kel. He’s in his 80s.  On guitar is Scrubby Pete Hurcombe from Murwillumbah way. He’s a Blues Man from the Hillbilly Blues Banditz and on bass is Izzy Foreal from the Zarsoff Bros.

Kel, being an old Jazz Man of Murwillumbah, attracted the Ladies. He almost always received a kiss or a hug. There is a Jazz Club round on the river in Murbah. GREENHILLS, the venue is called. The Tweed Council was most peculiar about where the band could play. Despite the entire street being empty, the band was confined to the shopfront area and forbidden to overlap any other premises.

Luffley Café has some odd quirks and the desserts were not always as tasty as they looked. They did ballroom dancing there as well. They seem to have a connection with a village called Tyalgum. Incomers of course, so there are rippling after effects from tsunamis of Coastal Invasion. On occasion, good looking driftwood is left behind. Luffley is a little frilly for some tastes. Down the road is the original Murwillumbah Café. Booths and all and over the River in Tumbulgum was a wee café called the Birdwing. We certainly eat a lot and drink coffee a lot on the Northern Rivers.


First, what Freecycle is NOT about:
Freecycle is NOT about giving only to the poor, there are charities out there for that.
It is NOT about getting as much free stuff as we can.
It is NOT about getting things to earn money on the side.
It is NOT about getting rid of junk that would be better off in the landfill.
It is NOT about posting a “wish list” for expensive items and expecting a fairy godmother to fulfill it for us.
It is NOT a community bulletin board for finding rentals, dentists, mechanics, or advertising our businesses and services or special events.
What Freecycle IS about:
Freecycle IS about keeping things out of the landfill.
It IS about giving away something that has no use in our life anymore to someone who could extend its usefulness a little longer.
It IS about giving gifts to people while clearing out our own clutter.
It IS about creating, building, and sustaining an environmentally aware community.
Offering Items We No Longer Need to Those Who Need Them:
When we post an OFFER, we are offering to give someone a gift. It is up to us to give this gift to whomever we feel would be the best recipient. We are not obligated to give our gift to someone who is rich, poor, single, married, has no kids, has 1 kid, has 15 kids, has a car, doesn’t have a car, or has a purple octopus named George living in their backyard. We can choose the most polite, the rudest, the funniest, or the shortest response to receive our gift. We can put their names in a hat and do a draw, or we can wave our magic fingers over our screens and pick one that way. We can choose the first, 3rd, or 53rd respondent. We can wait 24 hours and then decide. It is up to us.
Letting Other People Know What We Need:
When we post a WANTED message, or respond to an offer, we are requesting a gift. The odds are that no one on this list will be able to give us what we are asking for. But sometimes somebody will see a WANTED for a bowling ball and go “AHA! I have one in my closet!” But, you know what? Just because we are rich, poor, single, married, have no kids, have 1 kid, have 15 kids, have a car, don’t have a car, or have a purple octopus named George living in our backyard, does not mean we are more worthy of receiving a gift from a fellow Freecycle member than the average person living down the street.
Sending emails that don’t say “please” or “thank you” are a way to not receive an item. Sending emails with nasty comments in them are one way to find us in a bit of trouble.
When you want to find a new home for something — whether it’s a chair, a fax machine, piano, or an old door — you simply send an e-mail offering it to members of your Freecycle group.
Or, maybe you’re looking to acquire something yourself. Simply respond to a member’s offer, and you just might get it. After that, it’s up to the giver to decide who receives the gift and to set up a pickup time for passing on the treasure. You can even post a Wanted message to the group because somebody might have just the exact thing you really need stored away in a closet.
One main rule: Everything posted must be free, legal, and appropriate for all ages.
We are part of a community. In every community, there are people who don’t get along. And in most communities, when two people don’t get along, they just avoid each other. To do that on Freecycle, all you have to do is set up a filter to send any email from someone you don’t want to hear from straight into your trash bin. If you need help with that, let the moderators know and they can help you.
So, just remember: If you’re offering a gift, it’s up to you to decide who gets it.
And if you’re requesting a gift…well, be patient. Your turn will come eventually, but if you’re not careful your name could end up on a ‘will not give to’ list. Try starting off by making an OFFER to the list, just to see how the process works. Look in your closet or in that box you haven’t unpacked since you moved in two years ago. Prime stuff for Freecycle!
Above all – keep on keeping “stuff” out of the landfill!
Thanks So Much!